Most women have the ability to know even during the first meeting that a man is not a good choice for casual sex. You can’t blame her. You may have done something that she didn’t like. Here are 5 things that can turn her off immediately. Take note of them and make sure not to put yourself in this situation.
When you try too hard
Trying too hard to get her attention will easily turn her off. You can even turn into a laughing stock after the meeting. A lot of women like to end up in bed with men who seem like they don’t care. They like the challenge and the enigma behind these guys. Making her feel like you’re perfect isn’t a good idea.
Women have a tendency to go with guys who seem to be the most attractive rather than someone who exerts the most effort during the first conversation.
It may be hard to chill out with a woman and keep calm. Part of you just wants to show off and get her attention. This is something you have to learn. Keep yourself relaxed and it’ll be easier to sleep with her.
When all you do is chat with her
Don’t expect a woman to consider having sex with you if all you do is chatting with her. She’ll find you uninteresting right away. You’re not Dr. Phil. You don’t have to ask about her life. You can try so hard to go for topics that she likes, yet you’ll still not get her attention. Always remember that women are not stimulated by chatting alone, but by tension and a few emotions. Be adventurous. That’s what most women like.
Playing it safe won’t take you anywhere. The majority of women love the adventurous type, not the boring ones.
When you take yourself too seriously
This is a common mistake amongst a lot of men. They take the conversation too seriously and invest everything they got during the first interaction. Women like men that have a strong sense of humor. How can you be funny if you are too serious and when all you want is to please her and make her say yes to you? Relax. Laugh a bit. This can easily attract women and you’ll get one in no time.
When you show her that you practiced your move
Trying so hard shows that you already rehearsed your move and you’ve probably done it a couple of times on other women. Everything you do seem like it was taken out from a movie script from the first hello to the point where you ask for her number.
Women like it when you are in control of the situation. You have to be confident (not overly confident). Don’t be insecure. If you are, don’t show it. You may have to research before the real thing. That’s all right. A lot of men do the same. Just make sure it doesn’t show when you make your move. By being confident, you can handle everything that comes your way.
When you don’t know how to move forward
A woman wants you to move forward and not get stuck with a boring conversation. She will be turned off if you don’t move forward. An interaction may start with a conversation, but it shouldn’t end there. It has to move toward intimacy. Get physical. If you don’t, she will easily lose attraction.
If you’ve been chatting with a woman for quite some time already, you’ll know if she’s interested or not. Don’t waste time. Ask for her number right away or you may even kiss her. Talking too long will give her the feeling that she won’t get what she wants from you. You’ll end up being rejected.
Everything starts by being confident in approaching a woman, knowing when to ask for her number, kissing her, and finally becoming sexual. If you don’t know how to deal with the situation, you can lose everything. Master how to move from one step to the next right from the moment you introduce yourself to her up to the instant you take her to the bedroom.
Casual sex is so much fun, but the road to getting a woman to sleep with you is not too easy. It takes the right knowledge and attitude. Before you go out and introduce yourself to someone you’d love to have sex with, make sure that you are prepared. You can’t spend the night making your move only to lose her in the end.