Men and women want to have satisfying sex lives. As much as they’d like every encounter to give sexual gratification, it doesn’t happen all the time. There are people who are not contented with their sex lives. Some individuals are even unhappy. They know that there’s a lot of room for improvement, and they’d like to see changes overnight. If recently you haven’t been happy with how things are going in the bedroom, it’s time for you to make a move. Here are 5 tips that can improve your sex life overnight.
Be adventurous and try something different
Has sex become routine for you? Has it been the same for the past few years? It’s time to do something different. Get out of your comfort zone and let out the adventurer in you. It’s the best time to try things you’ve never tried before including those you never thought you’d ever do. Your next sex can be done in a public place. Or perhaps try it in another room or maybe on top of the table or washing machine.
You can also try different positions. Any position when overused gets boring. Also, new positions results in high arousal levels. It’s best surprising your lover with a new position now and then. There are no limitations to what you can do when having sex. Come up with new positions, no matter how weird it may seem. Do anything that’s far from what you usually do. Stop the monotony. You deserve to have a better sex life and being adventurous will take you to different heights.
Take it slow and easy
Spend enough time for foreplay. Women need a lot of foreplay to make it easier to orgasm, and men should address this need. In return, women should not be selfish in giving oral sex. Taking it nice and slow increases tension, and makes both man and woman feel ecstasy they have never felt before. Sex should not be selfish. It has to be give and take. That way, everyone will be satisfied at the end of it.
Have a lot of dirty talk
Men are good in kinky talk. Women, on the other hand, find it uncomfortable. Girls need to express their thoughts and sexual desires and it can be done through dirty talk. If it’s the first dirty talk session for the girl, a guy should know how to make her feel comfortable. It has to start with a whisper and not a snarl. It has to sound sexy even when tension is filling up the bedroom. Dirty talk will always work because it’s different from all other forms of sex play simply because it has words. Then again, how effective it will be depends on what goes out of your mouth and the manner you say it. Remember that better sex results from good communication. Communicating your thought in a sexy way will keep things heated the entire night.
Tell your partner you’re enjoying it
Do what you can turn on your partner and that means spending a lot of time for foreplay. Guys should not make their lovers feel that they’re doing all the work. They should instead let women know that they’re enjoying it. Of course, ladies should also know how to give back.
Use your creativity
Be resourceful and look for things that you can use during sex. Whipped cream, for example, is a good addition to the bedroom. There are likewise a lot of sex toys available. Don’t hesitate to use these toys during sex. There’s nothing wrong with being naughty especially if it can improve your sex life. Even a little effort can bring a big difference. Girls will admire it and guys will consider it as another adventure. Being naughty will fill both parties with anticipation. It also sets off the fireworks and ensure that sex will be fun from start to end.
Understanding that your sex life badly needs a boost is essential before you even try to improve it. Accept it, there are a lot of ways for you to get better. It usually takes time to improve one’s sex life, especially one that has gotten monotonous. Then again, if you are serious about making it better and you stick to the tips mentioned above, your sex life will be different tomorrow. Most importantly, the rewards are long-term and you can have great sex for many years. Life is short. Make the most out of it. Conserve energy, relax, and have the best sex of your life.