A lot of women engage in casual sex, but not all of them want it, other ladies want long-term relationships, yet end up in casual relationships. Let’s explore a woman’s need for casual sex VS long term-relationships.
A woman’s need for intimacy
Women like to feel special all the time. Although their family and friends can make them feel important, it is somehow different when the attention comes from a guy. Even if you can associate intimacy with sex, not every woman out there who longs for affection wants to feel it through sex. A guy can show his feelings for a girl through a lot of ways including kisses, hugs, surprises, and by giving gifts.
So do women really want to have casual sex in order to feel affection?
Yes and No. Women are different from one another. Some of them know that they can get attention if they have casual sex with another man. Others believe that being in a serious relationship is worth the wait. They know that their men will not abandon them right after sex. This can happen when you are in a casual relationship. The guy may never call you again. Sadly, it is usually the woman who becomes emotionally attached to the man she slept with. They say that a woman stays emotionally connected to a man for 3 weeks after they had sex. In the end, it’s the woman who gets hurt. Men can always have sex without any emotional attachment involved.
Are women capable of engaging in casual sex without being emotionally attached?
Some girls say that they don’t mind having sex with anyone, and they can get out of the bedroom without being emotionally attached to the guy. Well, maybe some girls have this gift of hiding their true feelings. But many of them just can’t hide their loneliness. When you look at them closely, you’ll see that they want the men they have sex with to call them afterwards. They hate the feeling of rejection. Who likes it anyway?
It’s possible that a woman who loves casual sex, or at least looks likes it, is merely covering up for the disappointment she feels about not getting any calls from guys. It seems like they only want to have sex with her.
Casual sex gives her temporary relief. Reality sinks in the moment she gets out of bed and moves on with her life. Even if they say that there shouldn’t be any expectations in casual relationships, women find it hard to follow the rule. They feel pain when they realize that their emotional needs will never be fulfilled and all they can ever get is sex.
Even if you think that you’re tough and your emotions won’t get the best of you, you can’t lie to your instincts. You’re an emotional being. You can’t say that you’ll have sex with a guy just because you want to. There are reasons why you would love to have him in bed. One is you are physically attracted to him. You may also find him intelligent. The guy may stimulate you mentally or make you feel important. You may think that the two of you have similarities. You don’t just randomly pick a guy without having a reason to have sex with him.
Regardless of the reason why you want to have sex with a man, some facts will stay. Whenever you have sex, you become vulnerable and you open yourself to a certain level of intimacy that you can only share to yourself.
Sharing your body with another person and expecting that you won’t be emotionally involved is just like lying to yourself
You only get temporary sexual relief as well as a false connection during casual sex. So is it worth the pain you’ll suffer if the guy rejects you?
Women want to be loved and they want to feel a connection. That’s the reason why women have partners. It’s also the reason why married people look for connection elsewhere when they no longer feel it in the marriage.
So are women liars when they say that they can have casual sex without being emotionally attached? Yes. Women always feel a connection after sex. It goes to show that what they want is a long-term relationship or at least a serious one. They don’t want to be rejected. They crave for attention, acceptance, and love. They crave for things that a casual relationship cannot give them. They lie to themselves thinking that casual sex is all they need when what they really want is someone who truly loves them.