Sexting is very popular nowadays, and there’s good reason for guys to love it. Sexting allows men to turn a girl on in just 20 minutes of sexting her. Someone who is an expert in sexting can make a girl beg that he visit her so they can have a good time in bed.
Sexting is also relaxing and can be done at home. You can even text several girls at once. Why is sexting so effective? Women are easily turned on by words. Women, by nature, love to fantasize. Sending them the right messages can turn them on right away. They start to image sexual scenarios and get aroused by your messages.
Although sexting is great, not everyone succeeds at it. You have to learn the art and know how to do it right. Want to turn into a professional texter this 2013? Read on and get valuable tips on how to become an excellent sexter.
Start with short messages
If you’re new to sexting, try to go with short messages first. Three to four words should be good enough. It allows you to be straight to the point with your messages. Saying too much can lead to embarrassment. You might even use the wrong adjectives. If you’re nervous and don’t know how to respond, mash several buttons. Sending a message that is incomprehensible shows that you’re filled with desire for her.
Make sure your message is cool
Messages that are unwelcome or unsolicited can be tagged as sexual harassment. So before you start sexting, make sure that the other party is interested. If you don’t know what to say or you’re not confident with your sexting skills, don’t hesitate to learn from the experts. Look for sexting examples online.
Do not abbreviate your messages
You don’t want her to spend so much time deciphering the message you just sent her. Rather than being aroused, she may be puzzled with your message. You want to flirt with her and arouse her. When she gets a message she barely understands, momentum may be lost and you may have to start over again.
Use adjectives and punctuations appropriately
A message can sound really sexy if you add an exclamation point and not just a period. Using the right adjectives also helps. The other person will have an easier time imagining when your messages are described in detail.
Be careful in sending her photos
You don’t want to send a lady a picture of your penis if she didn’t ask for it. If she did, go ahead and send her one. Just make sure your face isn’t in the photo. Even if she didn’t ask you to send a picture but she expressed her interest in seeing your manhood, you may send her a close-up photo. Keep in mind that a lot of women don’t need that photo for them to be turned on. Also, when you send her the picture early on, she’ll be frightened and may stop responding to your messages.
Remember that there are no rules
You can make up stories when sexting. There’s a big chance that the other party is doing the same. Sexting is a way to make the dullest days become interesting. Learn to abuse this power and you’ll surely find yourself spending much time sexting.
Don’t send nude photos that have your face
If you don’t want your nude pics to end up on the Internet, then don’t send any photo that has your face on it. Even saving photos on your phone can lead to embarrassment. Your parents or siblings may accidentally see these photos and you’ll end up ashamed of yourself.
Don’t keep your messages on your phone
Once you read them, delete them right away. This is most important for those who are using company phones. Also, if there’s a chance any of your family members will access your phone, you have to delete messages right after reading them. You can only keep them if you’re okay that others will see suggestive notes and sexy photos on your phone.
You can text pretty much anyone you like as long as the person shows interest. It can be someone you met at the bar or a person you’ve known for quite a while. No doubt sexting is fun. If you’re good at it, you can easily turn the person on. Add luck to it, the lady may even be the one to invite you for sex. So learn how to text the right way, and 2013 will become your best year ever.