A lot of women fake orgasms and your casual lover may be faking hers too. There are a lot of reasons why women fake orgasms. Some of them are not comfortable about telling their men what they want to be done in bed. They don’t know how to express their desires or some simply want to avoid the conversation. A couple of fake orgasms may not hurt because women still love sex even without it. However, when orgasm is not reached almost every time, she may lose interest and get bored. Even if she’s just your casual lover, she deserves to have a great time in bed. By knowing the signs that she’s faking it, you’ll know if you’re doing the right thing or you got to do more. You may have to talk with her about the issue. Also, knowing the signs assures you that she can never lie to you again.
Here are the signs that she’s faking an orgasm:
She has a lot of energy even after sex
Sex can be pretty tiring especially when done for quite some time. Sex with orgasm? It can take a lot out of you. After sex, check if your casual partner is breathing hard or if she just seems relaxed. If she does not look tired, she might be faking it. Women feel drained after hot sex just like what men experience. So if after sex your casual lover can get up like nothing happened, there might be something wrong. If she continues to do what she did before sex, there’s a big chance she didn’t reach the climax.
She thinks about her tasks for the day right after sex
If after sex she talks about her tasks for the day, she may have not reached orgasm. A lady who climaxed can’t think of anything else except how satisfied she was. She also talks about how good you were in bed. You’ll know if your casual lover was just faking it if she’s too engrossed with tasks and wants to do them right away even if you just had sex.
She talks loudly during sex
Whenever your lover orgasms, she either calls your name or says “Oh God” or “Oh my God”. During sex, you can expect her to moan and whisper your name several times. Fragments are a good sign that she’s having a great time. If she talks loudly, there’s a big chance that she’s not being genuine. Orgasm takes a lot of energy out of her, and she won’t have enough energy to yell while she’s climaxing unless she’s faking it.
She does not want to connect with you
When she orgasms, she’d love to snuggle or just stay near you. Well, that’s if she’s not faking it. There’s a big chance that she’s just putting on a show if she merely sleeps and stays on her side of the bed without even touching you. If she does not mind watching you fall asleep while she spends time doing her stuff, she may be unsatisfied. Girls who don’t reach orgasm often become unemotional and don’t like to connect with their men.
Getting to know the physical traits of orgasm
There are certain physical traits that help you determine if a woman has reached orgasm. There are women who become really loud while others become quiet and concentrate on what’s happening. When a woman climaxes, you will see her face, chest, and body become flushed. Her nipples harden. You will notice a shortening of her breath. You can also tell if she’s reached orgasm when her vagina has little contractions. Before an orgasm, a woman’s body involuntarily gets tense. Her thighs will also quiver.
A woman’s clitoris is very sensitive after she climaxes. If you’re still not done and her pace stays the same, there is a big possibility that she might not have climaxed at all.
A lot of women have the ability to fake orgasms. Your casual lover may have been doing the same to you. If you don’t want to be lied again, talk to her about it. Find out what her sexual desires are and what can help her achieve orgasm. Remember that one reason why you are in a casual relationship is for you to have a great time. No doubt that you can have a great time in bed. Then again, if your partner is just faking it, she might not be satisfied with every encounter. Talking to her about it resolves the problem and ensures that she will have a real orgasm the next time you sleep together.