The first date is always the hardest to come up with. Meeting a new girl for the first time, you just simply have no idea what she wants and how she wants them to be done. If you get lucky on your first date, you might even get to kiss her off her feet. What’s more difficult and challenging, though, is to get her to open her front door for you and bring you to her bed. Don’t whimper away in fear just yet. First things first: win that first date. Wow her with these amazing venues and first date ideas that will surely get your ass on her sheets, pronto.
Get messy with her
Bring your date to a cooking or baking class. This is one date that will help you bond while you both are working on something together. If she’s the creative type, you’ll get to her fancies right away. Create desserts instead of making dinner. The lighter the food, the sexier she would still feel when she takes her clothes off later during that night. Use chocolate. Not only is it a safe flavor and a favorite of most girls, it is also a widely-known aphrodisiac, which you will certainly need for later. Mess her up with food. Paint her with whipped cream, chocolate syrup, or ketchup on her nose or on her cheeks (avoid putting some on her clothes, though). This act will be such a tease and will give you a “bad boy” sex appeal. You’ll never know it might release her inner “bad girl” appeal during the sex, too. Lastly, compliment her on how lovely and delicious her creative outputs are. The praising will make her feel all the more special and will even turn her on.
Don’t just have dinner
Take her to restaurants with a “theme”, may it be in a Rainforest Café, a medieval-type, or a rock music-inspired diner. It’s best to find out what her interests are beforehand so that you are guaranteed that she is enjoying your first dinner. Look for places with a great ambience and with lots of character to suit your mood. These may be hard for those who live in smaller towns. In this case, you both can make a trip to the big city together and discover places she has never been before. When in a place you have never been to yourself, ask the server for suggestions in your meal and go with whatever he/she tells you. This will show your girl that you are up to new experiences – something that most girls like. You are also showing her you are quick at making decisions and that you’re handling the night pretty well.
When you’re done with dinner, take her out for a walk in the park or just sit together and watch the stars. This will give you the chance to get to know her better while you both digest what you have just taken in. You don’t want to feel bloated once the heat is on. The “bonding” will also set the mood for her as it tickles not only her heart, but also that thing right under her.
Engage her in action
This first date idea might be a little unexpected, but this will totally work just fine for a girl who is a fan of crazy adventures.
Try inviting her over a paintball match. The fun and excitement will set things up for the both of you like you never expected them to. The physical movement and the adrenaline down her veins will not only give her an amazing experience, but will also charge her up for some awesome sex. And who would ever miss a good chance into flirting when a girl shoots a paintball in your face – or anywhere else, at that?
Here are a few tips you might want to remember with this kind of date. Settle for only two to three games. Be on her team for one game, and be enemies on another. While you’re on her team, make sure to always protect her and be her “knight in shining armor” (or in this case, shining paintball gun). When you’re on the other team, make her your target. This would not make you a jerk; you just merely give her a tease. The intensity of the action will drive her emotionally, and even sexually, insane.
The only rule to every first date is to have fun. Bring out the side of you that will make the girls fall head over heels for you. And while you’re at it, bring her to these places and you can get her to fall for you – literally.